It is hard to find that perfect person that you know you want to spend the rest of your life with. We might know lots of people but how do you attract the kind of person with whom you have things common with. No one may seem even close enough to being even friends. It is usually hard especially if you are not exactly outgoing and the people that you meet are only if they take that first step. All you have to do is clothe yourself in a way that suits your personality and meeting that Mr or Ms Perfect will be very easy.
Clothes speak volume about you so your clothes should speak well about your interests and lifestyle. Your fashion styling should talk about your personality. At a networking party or at an event the first thing anyone will notice is what you are wearing. You’ll draw a certain kind of people and you don’t know why. It turns out it’s the clothes that attract them. Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. Not everyone might like the clothes that you wear. And they don’t have to.
If you happen to be a bubbly, chirpy person, then your clothes should reflect that. They should not be sober. Wear wild prints, with loads of accessories. People who share that lifestyle will automatically get attracted towards you. But if your ideal evening is to be curled at up at home with a cup of hot cocoa, wearing neutral colours will attract another quiet person towards you. Here the accessories should be simple but eye catching.
The most important thing is to be comfortable in your own skin. That is the only way the true you will shine through. An introvert will always be uncomfortable in wild clothes so wearing that should not be attempted at all. If you are not outgoing, do not wear outgoing clothes. You’ll just send out the wrong signals and people who are not like you at all will be drawn towards you. Your clothing should complement your natural beauty. Whenever someone says they like your outfit or the colour, they might not necessarily be complimenting the way you look. The clothes most probably are overpowering you. A quiet person will not feel at ease if clothes that totally negate her are worn. She’ll be fidgety the whole time and would just want to run from there sending signals that say, “Don’t come near me, I’m uncomfortable with the way I am”. Just one eye catching accessory worn against simple solid clothes would attract another quiet, relaxed person. That accessory is always a good conversation topic. People usually use a piece of clothing as an ice breaker. If an accessory has a story or some sort of history behind it, it’s great for conversation. People usually hit it off when they have common history so clothing that has some is good.
Just remember that if you want to attract a certain kind of person, think about what he or she’ll like. For that prioritise your likes and dislikes as well and then keeping mind how you dress.
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